Beat 1: Replay Moment of Frustration
Replay a moment that showed some sort of annoyance or sadness about the problem they have and show what that shit cost you. Dont say whats annoying or sad show the example like say “i still remember the day when i woke up and looked inside my dads bedroom and he was gone without telling us, i didnt leave my house for weeks i lost my friendships with people ”
You see that's some sad shit. I did just say are you upset your dad left you
I replayed the moment that made you sad + i made it clear what that cost me